sekarang Z masih belum boleh crawl on his 4 point positions. walaupun dia dah selalu berada dlm that position, dia masih belum boleh move his hands forward. kata paula he still cannot bear his own weight dgn sebelah tangan. sebab tu lah dia tak boleh merangkak ke depan..
4 point position
mama tanya lah apa lg yg boleh kita buat utk membantu, dia still suruh ulang the same sit-up exercise. hhmmm.. mama agak keciwa lah disitu.. kalau dah tahu that exercise kurang berkesan, sepatutnya kite ubah lah sikit step nya kot? tak kan takde bende lain yg boleh dibuat?
no, mama tak keciwa dgn pencapaian Z. mama tahu Z dah berusaha bersungguh2 pun.. mama bersyukur sangat Z dah boleh merangkak serata rumah. and mama tahu 1 fine day Z will be able to walk like normal kids. mama cuma sedih sebab mama rasa mcm x dapat membantu..
semalam jugak baru dapat letter from St Michael House. confirm additional budget cut from government. mama tanya lah paula tentang speech theraphy n home teching yg sepatutnya start bila Z masuk 18months. dia cakap home teaching maybe takde masalah kot.. but the speech therapist agak susah sekarang ni. mmg tak cukup staff katanya..
mama dah try survey for private one. tapi semuanya jauh (yg specialised for DS laa.) hmm.. dlm masa yg sama, bos mama (anak dia pun under SMH for Cerebral Palsy) nasihatkan supaya mama tak pergi ke private dulu. sebab once SMH dah tahu mama pakai private, diorang akan slow kan their service and will give our quota to others yg lagi memerlukan.. and the best specialist still come from government (cuma now x cukup staff aje). Buntu.
exercise cara mama
the only thing yg mama boleh buat sekarang adelah do my own research and try to practise any advice i got from my reading lah. tapi masa pulak kurang mengizinkan.. sehari 2 jam lebih jer mama bersama Z. masa tu lah nak makan, masa tu lah nak bermanja, masa tu lah nak main, masa tu lah nak belajar, masa tu lah jugak nak exercise.. sigh..
salam. tak tau nak komen apa selain bersabar dan berusaha. my baby zaheen lahir dgn tapak kaki yang masuk ke dalam sikit. kami ingatkan cuma itu, tapi lepas 3 bulan, rupanya tulang kaki zaheen tak masuk kat dalam disc pinggul dia. bukan tergantung, tapi tak termasuk sepenuhnya. macam2 GH buat, kena pakai harness, kena pakai splint, kena urut kaki...hmm...yang kami buat, cuma urut kaki zaheen je. pakai harness - tak sampai hati.., pakai splint cuma bila zaheen tidur. tapi berkat usaha bapak mertua, akhirnya zaheen OK. last check up kat GH, tulang kaki zaheen dah masuk sepenuhnya ke dalam disc pinggul. tapak kaki zaheen dah straight 95%. rahsianya, terapi tu boleh dipelbagaikan mengikut kesesuaian. masa belum pandai berdiri, zaheen suka melompat2 bila orang pegang dia. so bapa mertua i selalu pegang dia, bila dia melompat, make sure kaki dia cecah lantai 180 darjah. masa lepas mandi, sapu lotion/minyak, urut sekali kaki zaheen. Motif i cerita pasal anak i kat sini cuma nak motivate you don't give-up. mungkin kes anak kita tak sama tapi pendekatannya tak jauh beza..rasanya!
ReplyDeletethank you mummy zaheen for sharing your experience here. betul cakap awak tu, terapi tu sbnrnya boleh di pelbagai. yg penting kena terus berusaha jer. sebagai ibu, mestilah kite risau pasal anak kite and want the best for them kan..
ReplyDeleteInsyaAllah i will never give up :)
salam laili..
ReplyDeletesabar yea dear..we know that Z has done the best he could..and actually progress dia better than my baby, awfeeya. awfeeya christmas baru ni baru start crawling..n she's 1yr 9mths..mula-mula i ingat dia skipped crawling n nanti terus jalan je sbb die dah start cruising masa umur 1yr 7mths. maybe she's delayed compared to other normal kids but i know one day she'll be able walk, run and jump..she just need her own time..don't give up on them,ok.. ;)
thanks dear..
ReplyDeletesometimes sedih jugak bila fikirkan pasal Z ni.. risau takut i havent done much to help him. but i know they will grow n develop in their own time.. mama Z yg kene banyak bersabar :)
anyway awfeeya dah start cruising? good job baby girl! InsyaAllah she will start her first step soon :D
yeap2..same here..slalu rasa guilty macam i've done nuthin much for her.. :(
ReplyDeleteyea..awfeeya da start cruising..tp xpandai merangkak..from commando crawling trus duduk, memanjat n cruising..kalau kite pegang tangan die, laju la die jalan..but on her own, still blum lagi..masa assessment, doc kata die blum pandai balance lagi sbb tu die xbrani nak jalan sendiri..xsabar rasanya nk tgk die bjalan..
Alaa mesti cute jer dia bertatih tu kan :). Hopefully Z pun nanti boleh cruising mcm awfeeya..
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